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Good vs Toxic Stress

“STRESS”A SILENT EPIDEMIC OF OUR TIME

In Hong Kong’s fast paced life it’s not a surprise that I see 3/5 people who report high levels of stress, so what is stress? Stress is a body’s normal physiological response to an external event. For the cycle of stress to begin, there must be a stressor, like a work deadline or a scary medical test. Stress is defined as a reaction to environmental changes or forces that exceed the individual’s resources.

Good and Toxic Stress

In prehistoric times, stress was a natural response to a threat, like hearing a predator in the bushes. Although we don’t have to run to save our lives from a sabertoothed tiger today, the stress response also known as fight flight freeze response still prompts a behavioural response, firing up our limbic system and releasing adrenaline and cortisol, which helps activate the brain and body to deal with the threat, e.g. crossing the road safely as the bus is coming towards you.

Is all stress bad? No, there is good stress and toxic stress

Good stress is a natural, adaptive, built-in response that prepares us for action, both physically and mentally. That stress response is there to temporarily increase our energy and focus — so we can take charge of the immediate challenge. Positive, healthy stress physically feels like a rapid heart rate, clammy palms, and shallow breathing. At first, stress might feel good as adrenaline and cortisol flood the body, and the thought is “This is going to be challenging, but I can do it.” Generally, stress is good when it meets two basic criteria: the task feels doable, and we know the stress is temporary. When stress leads to action, and you know that action leads to eventual satisfaction, it feels good. Positive stress may make you feel nervous or tense, but it should also make you focused, energised, and invested. A certain level of stress helps keep your mind and body alert and ready to respond. It can be motivating and help you perform your best.

However, it becomes toxic when a situation no longer feels doable and isn’t temporary. Toxic, long-lasting stress has unfortunately been normalised in our times, and this is not okay. Living with sleep deprivation, eating at your desk or skipping meals, tossing and turning at night, and having stress-induced headaches for years should not be accepted as just the way things are. When stress becomes toxic, we enter a state of distress, signalling an unsustainable situation. The cost is usually to our physical, mental, and emotional health.

Prolonged exposure to distress impacts our emotions, leading to a combination of anger or irritability, anxiety, and depression. Physically, it affects almost every biological system in our body. Autoimmune diseases have been on the rise in the last 20 years as well as gut issues, muscular pain, and fertility problems. Recent studies even suggest that stress can feed cancer cells in our bodies. This aligns with my observations that more young, healthy individuals are being diagnosed with terminal cancer in their early 40s. While early diagnosis plays a role, stress is definitely a significant factor in the rise of this and many chronic diseases.

Mind and Body are Connected – they don’t function in isolation

To manage our stress response we have to put in place strategies knowing our minds and bodies are so connected. The body sends signals to the brain, and vice versa. Acknowledging your body’s stress response signals is the first step and then to close the stress loop the following are the most helpful that people have found in my practice.

  • Doing something daily to close the stress loop, such as exercising, practicing mindfulness, walking, or reading. Exercise is a way for your body to recover from the increase of adrenaline and cortisol.
  • Setting a timer for the middle of each day to get out of your chair, stretch, and get your body moving.
  • Putting away your phone and allowing yourself to just be bored.
  • Using all of your senses to experience life as it happens, not rushing through, and preserving the sense of wonder. Living in the now rather than focusing on the future or dwelling on the past.
  • Learning to breathe deeply and steadily, to slow our heart rate and relax our muscles during stressful situations.
  • Remind yourself of what you can and can’t control about the situation and then focus your energy on what you can control and accept what you can’t. My patients are definitely familiar with the can and can’t strategy.
  • Don’t compare your stress with anyone else’s stress, everyone is unique and people respond differently to stressful situations.
  • Remember stress is a biological response that is a normal part of our lives
  • Pay attention to your thinking patterns and what you say to yourself. It’s also important to work on what we think during stressful moments. Remind ourselves that our thoughts are not our reality.

The Silent Epidemic

In my opinion, stress is the silent epidemic of our time, especially since technological advances like smartphones have blurred the lines between work and personal time, promoting constant availability. We need to be more cognisant of this and take action. This may seem totally undoable for so many, but I would like you to give it a go. Try putting your phones away every day after work and be present in the moment, allow yourself to detach from the cyber world and your cyber lives, I promise it will make a positive impact.

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This article was originally published on Little Steps Asia – Read the full article here.

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