Trauma and the Internet
Repeated exposure to violent news reports, videos, and images on media platforms can trigger both direct and vicarious trauma responses. Direct trauma describes our experience
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4 Ways to Build Stronger Communication with your Children
One of the largest changes during the Covid-19 lockdown measures, was having children sit in front of a computer screen all day for school. Then
The Impact of Isolation
DR QURATULAIN ZAIDI of MindNLife looks at the mental challenges arising from the pandemic – in particular, for those facing quarantine – and where we might turn for some relief.
My Child is Refusing Access; Now What?
Mary was struggling to get her children ready to see their father, Darren, every weekend. It was always the same story. Her twelve year old
Cultivating Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs in Your Sex Life
Many couples come to therapy because they have challenges with sexual arousal and desire. They believe that they should be turned on and don’t understand
What is a Sex Therapy Session?
In my previous post, “What Is Sex Therapy”, I described what a sex therapist is and the conditions sex therapy can treat. Here I’d like to
Parent Child Reunification Therapy
How to improve parent child communication and relationship during families transition through Separation or Divorce. Every Friday evening, Matt would go to his ex-wife’s house
Understanding Anxiety
Since Covid-19 has taken over daily life, health and social anxiety has been on the rise as we adjust to a new way of living
The Discipline Dilemma
Dr. Quratulain Zaidi of MindNLife looks at society’s tendency to normalise spanking and child discipline, and how we as parents can do better. “Life affords
On Trauma
Trauma is an experience we go through when we are faced with an event that is deeply distressing and overwhelms our coping abilities. This experience
You Don’t Have to Grin and Bear It: Understanding and Managing Menopause Symptoms
It’s estimated that up to 80% of women experience menopause symptoms, and for around 25%, these symptoms are severe. Yet many continue to suffer in
Rekindling the Spark in Your Relationship
We all know that in the beginning of a relationship, there is typically more spark and sexual excitement in your sex life. Most people believe
Reunification therapy is beneficial, even when it isn’t court-ordered
Reunification therapy is best known as a court-ordered therapy for children who have been separated from one of their parents. However, reunification therapy does not
Divorce: how to break up with dignity
Divorce is often perceived negatively, despite its prevalence. In the US, nearly 41% of first marriages end in divorce, and the emotional turmoil that follows
Coronavirus Pandemic: Helping your child cope
The Coronavirus pandemic has brought about a year of unprecedented challenges, affecting every aspect of our lives. Children are more resilient than we give them
Is your child being bullied?
DR QURATULAIN ZAIDI of MindNLife discusses bullying, an all-too-common phenomenon found in schools (and, indeed, the daily life of adults) around the world, including Hong
Is your child struggling with anxiety?
Are your children anxious? Children as young as five are presenting for treatment showing signs of anxiety and stress. But how much of it is
Perinatal Anxiety: Signs and Support
A state of distress or anxiety considered distinct from other anxious states. Perinatal anxiety primarily relates to worries about the baby’s health, and one’s own
When to leave a toxic relationship and how to avoid dating similar people so you can find someone who recognises your true worth
Toxic relationships can often lead to trauma like depression, anxiety and panic attacks. Even the happiest relationships can turn sour and result in constant conflict.
Online trolls affect victims’ mental health and tips to combat them
It’s hard to imagine life without the internet. But while the online world provides many benefits, one of its biggest drawbacks is trolls: the army
Anger management for couples – how to defuse the inevitable conflicts that coronavirus lockdowns are spurring on
Conflict and anger are natural in any relationship. But when the parties involved don’t know how to manage, contain or neutralise these suppressed emotions, these
The secret lives of teens – drugs, porn, sex, and sexting included – explained for parents
If you’re a parent, you must know your teen keeps secrets especially now with the availability of resources online. What sorts of secrets do teens
Snacking more during the Covid-19 pandemic? Why you may be emotional eating
A lot has changed over the past year. That doesn’t mean that we are accustomed to our “new normal”, so it’s natural if you find
Why trailing spouses have it tough
Why trailing spouses have it tough – stress, depression, loss of identity – and how to turn it into an opportunity! Expats are prone to
The Diversity List 2020: Women’s Voices
MindNLife is beyond proud to have our founder, Dr. Quratulain Zaidi, among The Zubin Foundation’s Diversity List 2020. The fifth list since it launch, this
Managing Menopause: How to Get Help
Menopause can be a stressful time for women. It’s not menopause per se, but the symptoms that can last years make it a difficult experience.
10 years of talking about death, and life, at Death Cafés, and why the taboo-busting movement is having a moment
Who likes to talk about death? Almost nobody, but it is an inevitable part of existence. Most people are terrified to talk about it, however
Staying Motivated
Losing motivation is not at all uncommon. However, staying unmotivated can break our otherwise smooth path to reaching our goals, or dampen our spirits so
Ease the Stress of Relocating to Hong Kong
Moving is never easy. You’ve got your homes, family and friends to leave behind. When it calls for it though, you are left with very
Manage Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks
Anxiety and panic attacks can happen to anyone. Unfortunately, it usually happens in the wrong place at the wrong time. Reactions vary from crying, running
What are the Challenges of Mental Health and Parenting?
Mental Health, Parenting and Family Law: A Four-Part Series Family breakdown can become particularly complex when mental health, neurodivergence or addiction are part of the
Why do I always feel like I am in the way or I am a burden?
Andrea often felt anxious about asking for help, even when she was completely overwhelmed. She often kept her feelings to herself so that she would
Supporting Children and Families After Trauma: Guidance for Those Affected by the Hong Kong Fire
The devastating fire that swept through a Hong Kong residential estate this week has left many families facing unimaginable loss and uncertainty. As a clinical
How Mental Health Experts Are Supporting Students After the Tai Po Fires
Tuesday’s Backchat took an in-depth look at how communities are picking up the pieces after the devastating Tai Po fires, with a particular focus on
Supporting Children During Trauma: Collective Traumatic Events
The recent fires at Wang Fuk Court in Tai Po have touched the hearts of so many in our community, leaving families to face not
Mental Health: Understanding Risk-Taking in Boys and the Path to Healthy Development
by Dr. Q Zaidi Boys – and men – are far more likely to have life changing or life threatening accidents, largely because of the
Navigating Divorce: Breaking the Cycle of Generational Trauma
Divorce is never easy, but the way we handle it can shape not just our own healing, but the emotional well-being of generations to come.
Navigating Divorce: A Clinical Psychologist’s Guide to Healing
Based on a conversation between Dr Quratulain Zaidi and RTHK radio host Noreen Mir Divorce remains one of life’s most challenging transitions, often shrouded in
Toxic Masculinity, Trad Wives & The Power of Choice
In a recent episode of Brunch with Noreen on RTHK Radio 3, clinical psychologist Dr. Quratulain Zaidi sat down with host Noreen Mir to dissect
Navigating Adolescence in the Digital Age
If you tuned into Brunch with Noreen this morning, you would’ve heard an eye-opening conversation about adolescence in the digital age—a topic that’s becoming more
ADHD in Adults: Understanding Its Impact on Romantic Relationships
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) isn’t just a childhood condition—it often persists into adulthood, presenting unique challenges in various aspects of life, particularly romantic relationships.
Women’s Mental Health in Midlife: Expert Insights & Self-Care Tips
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, women often find themselves juggling multiple roles – career professional, caregiver, parent, partner – leaving little room
How can a mental health condition affect a person’s ability to parent and their parenting styles?
1. Depression Research shows parents experiencing depression may exhibit reduced energy, diminished interest in activities, and impaired concentration. These symptoms can lead to less engagement
Building Healthy Relationships: Insights from Clinical Psychologist Dr. Quratulain Zaidi
In a recent interview with Noreen Mir on RTHK Radio Three, clinical psychologist Dr. Quratulain Zaidi shared valuable insights into maintaining healthy long-term relationships. Her
Best Women’s Health Specialist. We Won Double at the Expat Living Awards – Thanks to You!
Wow – what amazing news to share! You’ve voted Our founder Dr Zaidi among top 5 Hong Kong’s Best Women’s Health Specialist AND our team
The Psychology of New Year’s Resolutions: Insights from Dr. Quratulain Zaidi
Many of us are making New Year’s resolutions in the hopes of improving our quality of life as we enter the new year. However, what
The Development of Self-Image in Children
A child’s self-image is a crucial aspect of their development. It not only affects how they perceive themselves but also how they interact with others,
Why AI girlfriends or boyfriends via romantic chatbot apps could cause real-life harm
The rise of people ‘dating’ AI romantic chatbot app raises concerns about their impact on communication and relationship skills, potentially trapping users in loneliness. Building
How Smartphone Addiction Is Turning People Into Phone Zombies
Smartphone addiction has become widespread in Hong Kong, causing family strife, insomnia, anxiety and depression, a psychologist says Bright red lights shine onto the ground
Supporting your teenager with their mental health
Given the growing rates of depression, anxiety, and associated challenges in teenagers, supporting your teenager with their mental health is more important than ever, and